Chaos seems to be the norm for most

Why is when things are going so well people have a need to create conflict and chaos just for fun? I don't understand what the need would be? I think I used to be like that but now I just want things to be smooth. I don;t have time for the nonsense. Or the will power to even handle it with grace. Today was an odd one. Tonight was odd. I think that I am just indifferent about the situation and for maybe the first time in my life I am speechless! To not have a care how someone else is feeling about the situation and to be so selfish that you don't even care? Why is that? Men! Boys! :)